Situation:

I go to Cane’s with a couple of coworkers, and the girl that took our order and I got to talking a bit [we used to go to elementary school together]. It was close to their closing time, so we kind of had to rush to eat, and leave, but my coworkers were egging me on the whole time to get the girl’s number. I never got to though, cause I never saw her again the whole night.

Ended up there again tonight with a different group of coworkers. The same girl passed by me, saying, “Back again?” in a friendly voice. She caught me off guard, so I couldn’t think of much to say before she walked off into the back. Once again, I didn’t see her again after that moment. -.-

She’s cute, but I don’t want to have to go there every day to try and talk to this chick, cause that makes me look like a stalker, and I would think messaging her on Facebook out of nowhere would be a little strange if I didn’t word it right [especially seeing as she’s hardly ever on].

Any suggestions? :|

  1. tifflincecum answered: I think she knows what’s up. I’ve had this happen with several guys & I just wish they would have asked me out sooner instead of being shy.
  2. goin-goin-gone answered: Just ask her. Honestly, I think she’d admire your conviction.
  3. skypirates answered: just message her like, did you miss me tonight? decided to give the third night in a row a miss! or something like that…..
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